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Thursday, June 25, 2015

13 Women Share the Sweet Ways Their S.O.s Have Comforted Them on Sh*t Days

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You’ll get rom-com status feels One of the best things about being in a relationship is the fact that your partner is pretty much obligated to love you, even when your emotions are basically the equivalent of Carrie's cry face on Homeland.The only thing that surpasses a guy's unconditional love is when he actually gets creative in a mission to cheer you up. Here, real women share the adorable things their guys have done to turn that frown upside down."My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. If we're FaceTiming and I'm cranky, he'll put on a song I like in the background and then, like, wiggle around. It's adorable, and he always puts the music on really sneakily, like reaches for the remote off-screen so I don't know he's doing it. Then, he looks really proud of himself when it comes on." —Alana R."I was having a tough week at work, and my boyfriend had flowers sent to me at the office. It wasn't just the beautiful flowers, but also the sweet and encouraging note that made his gesture so thoughtful. The note basically said, 'I know you’ve had a tough week, but just know that you doing an awesome job. You are truly a special person and the most amazing woman I have ever met. Meeting you over five years ago was the best thing to ever happen to me.' I replanted the succulent in the middle after the bouquet started to die, and I still have it!" —Elizabeth M.Elizabeth M.RELATED: 11 Reasons Men Love Being in a Relationship"My boyfriend and I are long-distance, and whenever I'm having a crappy day, he always texts me really cute animal pictures. Anything funny or with koalas or other adorable animals always makes me smile." —Sarah K."My boyfriend and I started out long-distance—and after a while, as you would expect, I started to get really bummed out when he'd leave New York to fly back to San Francisco. One day, a handwritten letter showed up in the mail. On the front, there was a picture of chips and salsa, with 'you' and 'me' pointing to each. I don't even remember what it said, but the thought made my day. The best part is he kept sending them, and it became a defining part of our relationship—we'd bring letters when we'd see each other, tuck them in suitcases before departures, and throw 'em in for holidays, of course. When we moved in together, I put all of our letters together in one pile, and it was the coolest thing getting to see them all in one place and reading them, each one getting a little sappier! It tells our story in the coolest way, and now that we're together, going through them can cheer up any bad day." —Devin T.Devin T.RELATED: The #1 Way to Build a Better Relationship"One time, when I was having a crappy day, my boyfriend showed up to my job as a surprise and took me to lunch. It was particularly nice of him since I had been a b*tch that morning because I was stressed. We didn't do anything fancy—it was a burger place that is in the same building as my work, but that's what made it special. He knew work was what was stressing me out, so he made sure I wouldn't have to go far so I could be there in case anything happened." —Jules C."I'm a busy jewelry designer and entrepreneur. Sometimes, it's tough to do all the things I need to take care of and have time for fun things, like decorating for Halloween. My husband, Ragu, is amazing. He is a cardiologist with a very busy practice, but he always helps out. The week of Halloween last year was a particularly busy and challenging one for me, and I was beating myself up for not decorating the house due to lack of time. My husband stepped up and not only carved the pumpkins but did them in such a creative way! I felt better because though I did not have time to seek out the fun I wanted, he brought the fun to me. It helped me relax and let go." —Priyanka M.Priyanka M."I was going through a really hard time at work and just feeling sad all around. My boyfriend came home one day, and after the delicious meal he made didn't cheer me up, he said the one thing he knew would excite me: 'Do you want to go get me a new pair of shoes?' I absolutely love shopping for him, but he's usually not so enthusiastic. The fact that he was willing to go out with me that second and spend a bunch of money on something he didn't care about just to cheer me up really made my day." —Veronica T."My birthday was last week, and I turned 25—a milestone birthday for me! It was the first time I wasn’t able to spend it with my family and mom because she just had surgery. My boyfriend, Daniel, knew I was feeling down about it, so he planned a surprise picnic on the beach in Malibu! I’m so lucky to have such a thoughtful guy in my life!" —Amanda P.Amanda P."When I have a crappy day, all I want to do is get home from work and veg out. My boyfriend knows all the things I really like: not cooking dinner, sour candy for dessert, funny/cheesy movies, candles, non-reciprocated back rubs, and a clean room to come home to. My natural tendency when I get home is to start organizing my stuff/packing my gym bag for the next day, answering e-mails, and cleaning up around the apartment. But if he knows I’ve had a rough day, he’ll force me to just drop my stuff, eat the dinner he made, and there will be a movie up and ready to go on Netflix. The bed will be nicely made with a giant bag of Sour Patch Kids on top, all our candles will be lit so the room smells amazing, and he’ll give me a long massage. It’s the best stress reliever!" —Kristin C.RELATED: 17 Things EVERY Woman Deserves in a Relationship"My car died while I was running errands. My boyfriend came over a couple hours later with his brother, who fixes cars, and my favorite summer beer. He went to the grocery store up the road after they left, and then he came back with a bag of peaches, my absolute favorite. He was very thoughtful and is always so considerate of my moods when I've had a rough day that's out of my control. Best guy ever." —Kelly L. A photo posted by @kellew on Jun 22, 2015 at 4:59pm PDT"My partner and I were going through a really rough patch, and things were a bit stressful at work. I came home one day, and he'd bought me a coffee table book of puppy portraits. He let me know it was a gift for me that he hoped would make me smile when he wasn't able to. And since I'm a photographer, he also hoped it would maybe inspire my work. It was such a sweet and selfless thing to do. I really do look at the book when I'm sad, not just for the puppies, but as a reminder of how loving and kind he is." —Lynae C.“First off, I am a Hello Kitty fanatic. A sweet gesture that my partner did for me was during the Easter holiday last Spring, he surprised me with a goody basket full of chic treats, including Hello Kitty Easter eggs filled with candy, shimmery lip gloss, flower-scented perfume, and my favorite body butter from Bliss. It was during midterm week and I was feeling stressed, so it was the perfect pick-me-up gift!” —Julia R.Julia R.RELATED: 17 Guys Share the Most Romantic Thing a Woman Has Ever Done for Them"When I'm feeling stressed or blue, I always reach out to my boyfriend because I know he'll make me smile. He has a habit of responding to my stressed-out texts with hilarious GIFs—and he even has a jokes site bookmarked so he can send me something funny in a pinch!" —Jillian K.

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