9 True Stories That Will Show You What People Going Through a Loss Really Need

Feeling supported

When someone is grieving the loss of a loved one, it can be hard to know how to help. Beyond knowing the nine words you should never say to someone who is grieving, there are plenty of positive ways to show support, says the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization (NHPCO). Instead of saying “Call if you need anything,” make specific offers, like running a particular errand or doing a yard chore. And overall, take your cues from the bereaved by respecting any needs they may express or cultural perspectives they may have. The following personal stories reveal what else works best to help a friend or family member dealing with grief.